deeply healing,
endogenous
peak-experiences
COACHING & PATENT PENDING SOMATIC TECHNOLOGY
Hello, I'm Fabiola Einhorn.
As a certified somatic resonance coach with 10 years of experience in both tantra and UX design, I use The Yantra, breathwork, IFS and tantric arts like toning/sounding/chakra attunement to reach harmonic states in your body, and penetrate to the deepest layer of your being. Where bliss and love radiates. I help you reach this in your daily life by giving you simple Pleasurehacks that help you harness the endogenous life force within you.
In 2018 I had a near-death experience and luckily I was already on a tantrik path to healing. I found sound baths & spiritual communities often to be too dogmatic when approaching healing, with a corrupt approach to both neo - and classical tantra.
I'm here to help you harness the power of your own unique healing capacity - in your voice, life-force energy, worldview and by engaging your innate capacity to self-regulate high states of arousal and intense emotions. I don't offer "tantra massages", rather I give you the tools to give yourself an orgasmic healing experience whenever you want!
I offer group classes at IKSK in Berlin, and 1-1 sessions for you to have a healthy, shameless relationship to your pleasure, and feel emotionally empowered.
🧘♀️ Learn the true art of ancient yogic practice, ohming & breathwork
👯♀️ Deeply self-love & feel empowered confidence in your voice & body
👩🎤 Make creativity stronger than fear & live in your full expression
❤️🔥 Kiss goodbye to trauma or thrive in intimacy, love & relationships
🤵♂️ Become a masterful lover or unlock different ways to orgasm
🌹 Deepen your love, intimacy and communication with your partner
Want to go deeper?
I also have a mentorship program, where you get custom guidance in awakening and harnessing your erotic energy via an ancient, powerful tantrik technique called the Cobra Breath. This is a sacred teaching that is only passed down orally from the initiated, to the called one. If this feels like something you are lit up by, book a free call with me to explore if this is for you.
In general I don't subscribe to one method or teaching, and the mentorship program always meets you where you're at - meaning it includes any method to reach your deeper desires, tangibly and effectively. But the Cobra Breath is an excellent and rarely offered empowerment tool for you to start gaining embodied liberation and thrive in your life, hence it's a key part of the transmission.
In 2030 the world health organization expects mental health conditions to be the leading cause of morbidity globally. I see this crisis rooted in a disconnection with our bodies and our habits of suppressing emotions, especially the most powerful ones such as sexual, creative energy.
The Problems
Traditional therapy only speaks to the mind, not to the body where trauma and implicit memory is stored.
Presence in spiritual growth and self-development work is not sufficient on it’s own. You need the dynamism of ecstasy, happiness, and pleasure to drive the deeper work that yields results.
Traditional yoga and therapy often denies a large part of our innate being - our creativity, messy self-expression, primal nature, and sexual life-force.
Achieving stable, thriving mental fitness is hard. The journey usually starts with one of two life events - either you experienced something deeply challenging like sickness, burnout, or loss. Or, you have woken up the importance of mental fitness with a peak experience like for example with psychedelics.
A “peak experience” is a rare, exciting, oceanic, deeply moving, exhilarating experience that generates an altered state of consciousness, and puts the mind and nervous system into a healthy plastic state ripe for re-patterning into our desired reality.
The Solutions I Offer
Pleasurehacking what I call my coaching approach and tools, which are about using high vibe tools bridging neuroscience, psychology and tantra in simple hacks that harness your endogenous life force energy on the daily, as well as bring you peak experiences you can re-pattern from, with the goal of shifting your default state to embodied liberation and your unique desired reality.
The Yantra is a sculptural machine I invented, that's like a home gym for your mental health and energy body. Patent pending first class vibroacoustic technology brings your body into a harmonic centered state in only 7 minutes, using your very own voice. Bridging art and therapy, this sound healing somatic tool induces peak experiences for you to enter a plastic state and heal faster.
what people say
"This is the kind of technology that wakes people up." - David England
"This is the best implementation of feedback I've ever seen." - Sam Chaney
"It's better than both the shower and the car for singing" - Jamie Jack
my unique approach
Pleasurehacking
Would you like to harness erotic power to access flow states &
expand your pleasure?
Imagine yourself …
🥋 Re-patterning your relationship to sexual energy, and learning how to direct this powerful energy to live in your desired reality, instead of having it control, shame or drain you.
🌹 Feeling beautiful, balanced and powerful confidence from the inside out in a way that allows you to show up in your centered, full expression.
not every coaCh …
🤓 Has a 650h sex, love and relationship certification, plus a masters degree in communication from Parsons
🤸♀️ Makes personal development fun and playful
🙈 Get’s the deep work done and watches out for spiritual bypassing
🧘♀️ Has practiced ancient yogic techniques and both neo and classical daily for almost a decade
🪄 Is initiated to teach sacred practices that are only passed down via oral tradition
📚 Gets you the research behind every tool we use, without free-floating signifiers (aka fluffy words)
🤔 Offers education that makes you ponder approaches to life, and form your own opinions around it
🤲 Has very high standards when it comes to professional coaching space
🌍 Has lived in many places in the world, and offers a unique perspective
🤕 Can relate to many hardships, and used these tools to survive a serious injury and near death experience
🪞 Attunes to you well, and is not afraid to tell you the truth
👘 Has enough experience to truly tailor offerings to your unique needs
I’ve always been one of those people rideshare drivers will tell their deepest secrets.
In my UX career, I was put on the largest projects where I would spend hours with strangers talking to them about their journey with cancer, huntington’s disease and other traumatic experiences. I not only got professionally trained in the many nuances of holding space, but this is when it became evident I have a natural ability to make people feel safe in opening up at deeper levels.
It is also my belief that intimacy, life force energy, self-love, and creativity go hand in hand. In our partnership, we tackle all of these from the angle that best suits you and your unique situation.
Isn’t life too short to waste moments
not investing in your full potential?
Still got questions? I gotchu.
What's your story? I’ve had an almost daily meditation practice since I was 16, and experienced my first full spiritual awakenings around that age. However, it wasn’t until 8 years ago I got serious about ancient yogic practices and started working with a master. It was around this time that I got to learn how to control and induce these amazing altered states of consciousness that live within our bodies completely naturally. Refining the subtle body and top down mind control allowed me to experienced bliss by nature, have my soul astral project, and many other heart opening, wild sensations. I have always felt empowered and fully expressed, but being a child of an alcoholic mother I had issues with boundaries and self love. Ancient tantric philosophy showed me how to care for myself like I care for others, and fully love all parts of myself. Life was exquisite and blissful, and hosting heart expanding gatherings and showing women and men a way into safety and self love in relation to their power and intimacy became something I was more often celebrated for. But then … A high jump of joy at Burning Man turned into my dark night of the soul. On my way down, my ACL snapped, which would have been okay ... if I didn't get a bone infection during surgery that almost killed me. Three operations and a PICC line later my soul fell into this indescribable space of nothingness, and a vision of fully sharing my learnings as a coach and artist is what brought me back from this near death experience. Many dark months of severe pain, not being able to walk, lead to depression and a fear of being bedridden, just like my mother, who got meningitis 15 years ago. Today, I am grateful it helped me clearly see and break ancestral patterns and trauma I had grown up with. I'm not sure I would have been here today without these techniques, as it helped me restore nerve damage, find moments of pleasure and ease on my own terms, heal and persevere. I am deeply happy to be at a point in life where the fruits of my labor can be offered to you. Nothing lights me up more than being able to see the lasting impact and pure happiness in people when they share how our partnership has positively transformed their everyday life.
What about your certification & principles? I have a 650 hour coaching certification with Layla Martin. I have taken and taught in almost every single course of Ecstatic Hearts, and was invited to be a teacher there but chose my own path. I am deeply trauma informed and use the VITA method to coach, which believes that: 1. Love is THE superpower. 2. Unconditional self-love and creating the conditions to thrive are the two pillars of holistic coaching. 3. Everyone is perfect and whole at their core. 4. True transformation removes conditioning, wounding, and trauma, revealing the authentic core expression in anyone. 5. Presence heals. 6. Transmission is greater than tools. 7. Wholeness equals strength. 8. Returning to authentic sexuality is returning to truth. 9. Physical, emotional and mental freedom and ecstasy lead to health and wellness on all levels. 10. Lasting transformation involves body, mind, sensations, emotions, and spirit. 11. The best coaching eventually leads to a recognition of inner truth and wisdom. 12. Authentic desire is the path to freedom.
Why arts & creativity? The short story is, I’m an artist and I see it important for healthcare to be descriptive rather than prescriptive. I see creativity as a beautiful spiritual path in and of itself. I work with art in many different mediums, but the main piece that affects my coaching work is called the Yantra. The Yantra came about as a conglomeration of my experiences manifested in my minds eye in a single moment while practicing the Cobra Breath (see my offerings if you’re curious about this profound technique). It's an interactive cymatic project, that is hard to describe as there's nothing quite like it. What we found is that people experience a synesthetic and often altered states of consciousness effect as they hear, see, and feel their own voices and get to experience and calibrate their own frequency via their voice. As a dear friend described: "The yantra is a mirror for your mantra. By placing you at the center of a cymatic chamber, the power and beauty of the sacred geometry within your voice become apparent in a way never before possible." We saw people laugh, cry, play, and scream on it. Some people meditated. Vocal and musical artists brought their instruments and voices to use the Yantra. Some people shared they experienced a once in a lifetime transcendent healing experience. Most of all, we realized people were able to tap into their full and true voice, and feel empowered in their creative genius. I have never felt so alive as when I saw people use this machine to accelerate their healing. Tantric at it’s core, it became evident I could use this as an integrative tool with my practices. The Yantra will be available to you again in the late summer of 2024. If you’re interested in 1-1 sessions with it, please sign up by booking a resonance call with me.
What if I'm queer or curious about other relationship dynamics? I partner with people of all life paths and ages. I love working with both men and women, and different sexual orientations (queer, in particular). I’m also great at helping you navigate different relationship dynamics, such as polyamory and ethical non-monogamy (ENM).
